Grow Your Knowledge
Arm yourself with information so you can recognize manipulation and abuse. If you can see what is happening, you can avoid trauma and heal yourself from past painful experiences.
Does *The Absence Of Bad* = Good?
The good times can be mediocre at best if you are used to getting bad behavior. a narcissist will train you to deserve less than you do.
Why Narcissists Try To Convince You That You Don’t Need A Lawyer During A Divorce
When you are divorcing a narcissist, be very wary if they are suddenly pretending to be amicable. It’s a ruse.
What Does “The Benefit Of The Doubt” Mean Regarding Narcissistic Abuse
Do you keep having to give someone the benefit of the doubt. Why is that?
What Is The *Hypothetical Confession* From A Narcissist?
Hindsight is 20/20 when it comes to narcissistic abuse. This is how they gauge your reaction to their actions by secretly confessing to them.
What Is *Duper’s Delight* in Narcissistic Relationships?
Narcissists can’t hide their contempt and glee when they get one over on you.
Covert Narcissists Will Punish You For Giving Them The Help They Asked For
A covert narcissist will make your regret ever helping them. They will not appreciate your kindness.
What Is Third Person Stalking In A Narcissistic Relationship
A narcissist will use other people to do their dirty work if they can. They will third person stalk you using the people in their lives and yours. Be on the lookout for these ways.
Relationship Math: Sunk Costs /ROI = Why?
Analytical thinkers will use this math fallacy to reason why they stay in toxic relationships.
Phrases People Say To Themselves When They Are Still Stuck In Toxic Relationship Cycles
Toxic cycles can be hard to break away from. If you hear these phrases you may be the danger zone of back tracking.
What To Expect From A Narcissist During Thanksgiving and Christmas
Thanksgiving and Christmas are two of the worst holidays for narcissistic abuse. This is why.
The Karpman Drama Triangle Explains Why It’s Hard To Leave A Narcissist
A relationship with a narcissist is difficult to leave. Understand why by learning about the Karpman Drama Triangle.
5 Things You Can Do For Your Highly Sensitive Child
Highly sensitive children need a bit of extra tending to to grow up strong and healthy. These 5 things can help you guide your little one on their growth path.
Projection: A natural human response that is twisted during narcissistic abuse
How can you tell if what you are thinking is reality, or the positive projection you are hoping to see?
This Tricky Hoovering Technique Is The Most Dangerous If You Are The Helper Type
A narcissist will use your love and willingness to help as a way to suck you back into the relationships with them.
The Danger Of Trying To Have The Perfectly Amicable Divorce
Wishing for a nice relationship after a messy breakup can be a hard fantasy to let go of. If you are dealing with a high conflict personality you need to consider this…
How To Make A Comfort Box With Your Kids To Help Soothe Anxiety And Teach Self Care Skills
Using a tool to teach yourself and your kids how to manage stress is helpful during tough times. Use this technique to manage anxiety.
This is why it is hard to think of your partner as a narcissist
Fighting the thought *is my partner a narcissist* can be stressful. It makes complete sense when you understand what is happening within your body.
(For partners of addicts) What Is A Structured Separation For Addiction Recovery?
A more structured separation can be helpful when you are struggling with whether to stay or leave a relationship that has addiction involved.
California Sober Isn’t Real!
Is California Clean a legitimate thing? Can you really be clean and sober if you’re still using addictive substances in any form?
Struggling With Whether to Give a Lover a Second Chance? Ask yourself this question.
If you are considering forgiving and getting back together with an ex, ask yourself this question first.
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