Grow Your Knowledge
Arm yourself with information so you can recognize manipulation and abuse. If you can see what is happening, you can avoid trauma and heal yourself from past painful experiences.
Did The Narcissist Know They Were Hurting Me?
Was the narcissist aware they were hurting you? This is one of the biggest questions I get.
This Is Why No-Contact Didn’t Work For You After Your Break-Up
No contact can be hard. Following these steps will make it a lot easier on you so you aren’t susceptible to getting sucked back in.
Narcissistic Love Is The Monkey’s Paw Of Romance
Old fables and short stories can teach us a lot about dangerous people.
It Wasn’t My Fault. You Allowed Yourself To Get Hurt
This warped view is how narcissists feel justified in hurting you.
Obviously, it’s all your fault.
Pictures Remember When We Can’t
Like journaling, images can be a time machine. They take us back to moments we lived before. They can be essential in healing.
Do Caterpillars Know How To Become Butterflies?
Trauma changes you. Healing changes you too. Trust that the person you are growing into will be beautiful.
Affair Recovery: Fast Forgiveness is False Forgiveness
Don't force yourself to forgive too fast.
Take your time and let your system settle down. It's worth the wait.
The Compliment/Insult Technique Used By the Victim Narcissist
This is how a narcissist will use complimenting you to get attention for themselves.
Does It Matter If You Attract Narcissists Or Other Toxic Personality Types?
Do you believe a narcissist magnet exists? Are you one of them?
After Leaving, Excessively Talking About The Trauma Is Normal
Why do abuse victims trauma dump after leaving? There's a good reason why this happens.
5 Reasons Narcissistic Abuse Against Men Goes Unnoticed
Men get narcissistically abused as well.
Well-Intentioned But Terrible Advice
Not all advice is good, even if they mean well. If an enabler is giving you advice, it will be enabler themed.
Here’s how to weed out the bad stuff and find the wisdom.
Romanticizing and Brightsiding Toxic Relationships Ends This Way Every Time
Is it necessary to “look on the bright side” in every situation?
“I Fall Hard And Fast”
Have you ever described yourself this way? Falling hard and fast can be a both a blessing and a curse if there is no balance.
Partners Of Addicts Look For Help For Their Addicted Loved One Before They Look For Themselves
Are you trying to help your loved on get help for an addiction? This is one of the most common requests I get.
Is It Stalking?
Stalking isn’t always easy to detect, especially if you are in a romantic relationship. Watch out for these signs so you can recognize it when it happens.
How Did You Not Know?
It’s hard to fathom how someone can lead a completely double life. People who have discovered their partner’s affairs get asked this question often.
Can You Afford The Truth In An Abusive Relationship?
Sometimes, facing the truth is a near impossible task. We often don’t know we are blinding ourselves until we look back on the past.
Does It Matter If The Narcissist Had A Tragic Past?
All narcissists have a tragic back story. They will use it to lure you in and keep you stuck so they can siphon empathy off of you.
“I Guess I’m Just Bad At It”
A narcissist will fake incompetence to get out of work. It’s a ruse. Don’t fall for it.
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