Grow Your Knowledge
Arm yourself with information so you can recognize manipulation and abuse. If you can see what is happening, you can avoid trauma and heal yourself from past painful experiences.
When Stalking Doesn’t Feel Like Stalking
Not all stalking is done in secret but it still causes the same anxiety and behavior changes in it’s victims. Just because you are married or in a relationship with a person, that doesn’t mean their actions are acceptable.
Abuse Enablers Love To Play “The Devil’s Advocate”
Why do enablers like to play this role and how does it harm you even further?
There Will Always Be Some Reason To Break No-Contact With An Ex
No-contact is hard to maintain. If you feel your resolve slipping, check out this article.
The Temporary Delusional States We Hold Within Abusive Relationships
Every abuse victim does this but it doesn’t get talked about enough. This is the reason it’s so hard to see clearly while in the relationship.
Overcoming Trauma Triggers By Embracing Reactivity
You can learn a lot from the way you react in a situation. Turn those reactions into strengths with a few tweaks.
The Term “Generational Poverty” Perfectly Describes Narcissistic Family Legacies
Something get passed down like genetic traits. This is one that narcissists doom their descendants with.
What Was Your Carrot?
What did the narcissist in your life use to keep you hanging around?
Ethical Non-Monogamy Isn’t This Cure For Cheating
Has your partner suggested this as a “fix” for their cheating ways?
Translating Commonly Used Narcissist Sayings
Why don’t narcissists say what they mean?
If you’ve ever wondered about the true meaning behind their phrases, look no further.
What Do You Do With Your Want For “Revenge” After Leaving A Narcissistic Relationship
How do you fight the urge to take out your pain on the people who hurt you?
I Never Considered It Abusive
It can nearly impossible to see what is happening all around you when you have been abused systematically for years.
The Simplest Way To Understand A Trauma Bond
Do you know what a trauma bond is? How do you create defenses around something you can’t see, touch, or hear?
They Can’t “Unbecome” A Narcissist
You’ll never be able to win a losing battle.
A narcissist is always going to be a narcissist. No matter what you try and do for them.
The Clown, The Flags, The Magic, The Illusions, The Games, The Funhouse, The Side Show
How could you know it would become so dangerous and toxic?
You Can’t Say The Wrong Thing To The Right Person
Is your partner trying to understand you? Do they want to hear your side of the story? Or are they picking a fight?
Did The Narcissist Know They Were Hurting Me?
Was the narcissist aware they were hurting you? This is one of the biggest questions I get.
This Is Why No-Contact Didn’t Work For You After Your Break-Up
No contact can be hard. Following these steps will make it a lot easier on you so you aren’t susceptible to getting sucked back in.
Narcissistic Love Is The Monkey’s Paw Of Romance
Old fables and short stories can teach us a lot about dangerous people.
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